Posted on: August 14, 2010
We've all had that special woman in our lives. You know... the one with the
sweet personality, the really nice hair and a perfect face.
She dates the more "adept" guys... but how can you get her to like
you?
While men are primarily attracted to women based on their looks, a woman finds
a man attractive because of his personality. A ideal man is an alpha male who's
confident in himself and not afraid to take the lead to get what he wants out
of life.
Ironically, what this means is that the best way for a girl to like you is
when she feels like she has EARNED you.
That's because to get a girl to like you, you should come from a mindset of
high value. Never come from a position of neediness.
So the best attitudes to have towards any one particular woman are:
1. Nonchalance.
2. Non-attachment to whether she likes you or not. (By that I mean, if she
likes you that's awesome, but if not, there are tons of other chicks out there
who are equally as great as she is.)
The bottom line is that a woman should never be a challenge for you. Instead
you should be a challenge for her.
In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can also eliminate neediness
by building up your social network. Make friends with as many women as you can.
(Women are easy to make friends with.)
Also date as many women as you can... don't restrict yourself to dating only
"that one special girl."
You see, the last thing you ever want to have going through your mind when
you're around that special woman is, "God, I MUST have this girl! She's
irreplaceable!" Having an abundance of women in your life will solve that
problem.
Also, whenever a woman sees that other chicks are attracted to a guy, she too
feels attraction. Psychologically, this is known as the "social proof"
phenomenon... and it's much more powerful in women than men.
Ever noticed how your female friends drool over the guy at the corner of the
bar who's got four babes at his table? That's social proof in action.
By the way, it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to have powerful feelings
for her.
Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS
of other women out there who are just as wonderful as she is.
If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her power
over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.
So, you're free to think that a woman's amazing. Just remember that lots of
other girls are amazing too. That way you won't become needy.
So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention,
and hang out with as many women as possible... those are the three secrets for
how to get a girl to like you.
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